The dildo is one of the most commonly used sex toys on the market. Those unfamiliar with them might assume that dildos are simply penis-like objects designed to be inserted into the mouth, anus or vagina. But dildos come in all shapes and sizes, and can be made from many different materials. Some are even curved, to help stimulate the g-spot or prostate. This wide variety of options makes the dildo an ideal sex toy for people of all gender identities and sexual orientations.
The first recorded use of a dildo dates back to Ancient Greece, where merchants sold a product called an olisbos. The word translates to “tongue plug.” It was a tool to be inserted into body parts that didn’t naturally lubricate, and the Ancient Greeks were not shy about anal penetration. Indeed, the Kama Sutra mentions that men who do not have sex partners may satisfy themselves with a dildo.
Today, there are a billion types of dildos to choose from, and just as many reasons to use them. Some are shaped to look like real penises, with veins and skin-like texture. Others are more abstract and less lifelike, and can be used to stimulate the clitoris, rectum or prostate. Still others are meant to be clenched around or tapped. And then there are the dildos that are geared specifically for insertion into certain body parts, such as a butt plug or a double-ended dildo.
It’s worth noting that dildos are used by people of all gender identities and sexual orientations, including straight people. However, there is a long-held stereotype that dildos are exclusively used by cisgender lesbians. This is simply not true. Many sex stores sell a huge variety of dildos for all genders and sexual orientations, and are committed to providing a safe, affirming and knowledgeable experience for customers. And a growing number of dildos are available online, which can be purchased by anyone who is legally old enough to purchase them.
There are some dangers associated with the use of dildos, especially for beginners. There’s a risk of STI transmission, as well as a risk of infection from licking or touching the dildo. For this reason, it’s important to use dildos with caution, and to follow the instructions on the packaging. Moreover, it’s crucial to practice good hygiene with dildos—cleaning them regularly and using the appropriate lubes. This helps reduce the likelihood of infection. Also, it’s best to avoid sharing dildos, since this increases the risk of spreading diseases that spread via body fluids, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea. For these reasons, it’s best to buy dildos from trusted stores and brands that have detailed information on their products. Then, by following simple safety precautions, you can enjoy your dildo to the fullest. SELF reminds readers to always seek medical care if they believe they have an STD, or have any other health concerns. For more information, visit SELF’s Sexual Health & Wellness Guide for Young People.